No More Pain Please...

Just understand this....  

There are many ways in which you can live happily, instead of crying the whole life.

Life isn't permanent, live it with joy until you breath.

Life must go on.....

Follow the above mentioned words of the respected, great monk Dalai Lama, and you will not forget anything in your life....

"Help people but never hurt them"

 

 See to it that...

The purpose of our life in one sense should be of living for joy and sake of others and then comes your turn.

And by this thought, I guess there would be no poor or rich or any-other thing which discriminates humans and creates problems in their lives.

Expecting things can sometimes make us feel happy, but many a times it does disappoint us...

So I would say its better not to have much expectations in your life.

Just feel the surprise.

Let it be sad or happy one.

But do take it in a positive sense.

This is the feeling which every human undergoes.....

In-fact, I guess there would be no person on this earth, without the two feelings which make us live

(Happy and Sad)

One small thing below which may make you smile :)

Take the burden in your life with a smile.

Do share your life.

Speak out to the world to share.

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/speak-out-to-share.html

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/03/speak-out.html

Thank you.

Love you all.

(: Keep smiling :)

Speak Out

Hi friends....

Today I want to ask you'll whether anyone of you'll have ever tried writing about the person who is or was with you....?

I mean, just think once about that person, his name when comes to your mind, try explaining him in one single sentence or two.

Let him/her be your friend, family member, lover,teacher, just a known person through others or even an enemy.....!

Just write down his name and the words which come to your mind or think from the depth of your heart.

Write down.

For example, if you have a list of 500 friends in your facebook page or google+, write down each name and the line with which you can represent him/her.

Let it be good or bad, but at-least once in a lifetime i guess you would miss that person on some or the other day, of giving you some kind of experience in your life.

Never forget any person who came into your life.

It is not that you should keep remembering the persons who troubled you or made you sad. But, do think in a positive way, as if you were with them just to learn few things so as to face the next challenges coming up in your life in the near future.

Be yourself, love people around you as you want, treat them in a well manner so that they can live happily.

Let it be your parents to whom you were born or to the people always with/without you.

I truly say, I love my family and all my friends. Am nowhere without them.

Also, those people who just came into my life for a pinch of time of my whole life till now....just can't forget anyone, because every person did teach me one new lesson for sure.

And am sure that every human had or will have this experience.

Only thing is that we don't care much about them in a positive manner.

And also as I told, when you write down the lines representing the characters in your life...and when you get a person with a negative thought in your mind, do try writing at-least one positive thing he/she has, which you can never forget. When you do this you feel good in one sense about it.

Just read the below lines in the picture:

 

It is very true...

You cannot judge anyone's life unless you yourself have experienced the things happened in their life.

Just show them that you can support them if at all you can or at-least leave the matter. But, never start judging them or their life.

You cannot be judged by anyone unless he experiences the things you did and neither you can judge theirs.

Every life has its own story and the characters in it experience it in their own way.

I request you'll to try doing the things I mentioned till now and in other posts.

And do share your life with others

http://speakouttoshare.blogspot.in/2012/02/speak-out-to-share.html#links

If at all you can, do write down/speak out and share the story or life time experiences in and around you and mail it up to :

speakouttoshare@gmail.com

And I would surely post this in my blog and let people know.

Give them hope and happiness.

 The picture on the left....

You can find this in members around you itself for sure. At-least one person of your circle in your life will have this kind of character.

Do support/help them.

Make them know. you are always with them in all hard times of life and give them the hope and joy of living, keeping people happy and thinking positively.

 Speak out and share your life time experiences :)

Keep smiling :)

Thank you.

Logic's and rules for happiness

Today's post ....

Just sharing with all kind of positive messages and quotes.
(Click on the images if they cant be seen clearly)

No matter what, try following the below logic's in your daily life.

You will know the difference of life which you lived until then and the life you are going to experience in the future after following these...

For sure you will find happiness :)

If not the above 7 logic's try remembering these below 5 rules for that joy of living.

 

For sure when you start following the last 2 rules specifically, then no one can beat your joy/happiness.

Live with a smile :)

GIVE MORE and EXPECT LESS

By doing this it is sure that in some cases you will be hurt or the others will be hurt.

But when it comes to the day or time when they get to know that you have told them a lie, it will be a day which can never be forgotten by anyone of you'll.

 In-fact it hurts much more when they get to know you have told them a lie.

As said, just speak the truth, what so ever the situation be.

Though it hurts you or them, you can live happily from the next day.

Will never have that guilty feeling.

 Make people smile and also you smile:)

This is a wonderful line, which has to followed and shared by everyone in this world.

 

Be positive think positive and you will live positive

Smile and share your smile.

Finally........

 

Do the best, you can and never leave your faith in god.

:) SMILE :)

Superstitious ….???

Well…today I want to share something with you’ll.

Superstition:  A belief in supernatural causality: one event leads to the cause of another without any process in the physical world linking the two events.

How many of you are superstitious ….???

The majority of answers would be, no we are not that superstitious…, We are of modern type, 20^th century guys…!!

But I would have the correct answer for this…

Most of us, especially we Indians are very superstitious.

If not us, our family is for sure.

They make us get into it by relating things happening in and around our life.

If that is not the case, I would say we get superstitious even when any of our friend’s relates the things happening, either good or bad.

And today even I am one of them….

I always did avoid comparing things, either good or bad happening in my life…, that is, I never compared it with any such kind of religious or so called superstitious matters.

Because, I always felt that when you start comparing in that way, it is for sure your mind will get involved much in that matter of superstitions.

And when that happens, you will always get depressed whenever you get sad/bad results in your living life, which is not a good thing, for a happy life.

Having that kind of thought, I could not resist for a long time.

Oh god, I started believing this…!!

There are many such instances which happened in my life, which now I am comparing them to the superstitious things.

That mainly affected me because of my family and the things that happened in my life in the past years.
Always took things happening in my life for a good sake, but today I feel the difference of loosing many things and started comparing things with those religious or superstitious thing which were installed in my mind since my childhood from parents, friends…

• One first thing is of the ‘cat’…

         It was always told to me that whenever a cat crosses your path when u walking or going somewhere, it’s a very bad omen…this is one big shit which I never believed and also will not believe in the future.

They always asked me to turn and go back from other way or at-least , to move back some 7 to 10 steps(don’t remember exactly).

One more, such situation I faced and even now face is the sneezing of a member near you when you start moving out of your home or on some work.

They say, that it is not good, ask us to sit for a while drink water and then start off.

Other such things which I remember are as follow:

• Never play with a scissor, or with the door al drop (bolt).. will get fights between members at home.

               I would ask you one thing: What about the hair cutter or gardener or farmer who use scissor’s…Is it that they always fight ?

• Similarly, exchanging salt between two people will get fights between those two.

Then how about those who do their business in salts (salt industry)…Do they fight always? If so how would the members work together? 

•  Now- a- days, many are just believing about the feng shui…Keep some selected items like feng shui coin, toy etc, at home and you will have peace at home and will make you earn more and so on…

          If that is the case why don’t every human, in-fact, poor people have it and get richer? 

•  Recently I got to know an interesting one of such kind, which I feel is somewhat funny…

         We have an Idol of lord Krishna at home and my mom got to listen that if lord has the flute in his hand, it’s that even statue of Radha must be beside him or, we must just remove the flute from his hand and just keep the idol. If not there won’t be peace at home.

•           Also one more interesting thing…..

          We had a fish pond(aquarium) at home, just bought it as we loved to have fishes at home as pets...

And one fine day someone just said we should not have shark fishes at home (they lead the members at home to fight) and also aquariums is not good for some people at their homes…!

Things won’t happen in right way.

What about the fisheries and aquarium shops? Aren’t they happy?

Listening to all this, we just removed the aquarium from our house.

•      Now coming to religious matters…

         I had always been to a Sai Baba temple on every Thursday since few years and things were fine.

Due to some reasons changed the temple which I used to visit regularly in between and also not that regular as before to the new temple, and at the same time things were not going good in life and the very next comparison done by one of friend and mom is that as you are not visiting that temple, thing are not good.

I would ask you once again, is it not that God is God anywhere? If that is not the case, why is that we have such kind of and these many temples all over the places where humans live.

• One final thing I would share with you’ll today is about the most superstitious thing/religious matter which made me to start my belief about all the above mentioned points on superstitions.

Even if I don’t like or try avoiding…it is getting me involved so densely that I am not able to avoid it and the results coming out.

On some day last year, our family had a pooja (a religious ritual performed by Hindus), done at a temple. And don’t know, if it’s of luck or fate/destiny or unfortunately the power of pooja.

The same day two good things happened in my life, which made me and my family very happy. Also my friends who always loved me, felt very happy.

One thing is that, I got my passport, for which I had been waiting and roamed for about 6 months to get it and other great thing which made all of us very happy is that, I was selected for a campus interview at my college and finally got a job. It was one of the best/happiest things that happened in my life till date.

And as usual, my family just started comparing all that to the pooja we had got done that day in the morning.

It is not that I am against it.

I always felt that all things just happen, they have their own reasons, may be written in our fate or so as told by elders.

But, why to compare them with superstitious kind of things, which just get into your mind very soon, and even when you try to avoid them, you can’t. You just start following them

Now I am in such situation…but even now try saying to myself that’s not the way.

These are such kind of mind eaters or say settlers which once get into your mind, may never move out…!

They even start affecting people with you when you start saying them about the things told above. It’s the same thing which happened with few of my friends.

Now, I hope you all are not comparing things happened in your life…with such superstitions.

Please don’t, it will never give happiness as you wanted. In-fact will just make you ask questions to yourself…why you did that and why didn’t you do that, and so on…!

I just shared my experience, so as to let you all know the way things can affect you in your life.

 

Just be yourself, have your faith in God and do what makes you and people around you happy.

  Help the needy and keep smiling :)

Thank you.

Happiness to be earned...!!

Am sorry if this statement hurts anyone, but I am just sharing this so that, when people think and compare themselves as poor/rich, the best way to think positively is:

"Poor beg outside the temple. Where as the Rich beg inside the temple"...there is no difference...! So, its better to be happy with whatever you have...

 If someone hurts you , betrays you, or breaks your heart...FORGIVE them, for they have helped you learn about trust...!!   

You would never experience your life without them....let it be a good or bad experience, but in the end it surely taught you some important things in life....!!

 

As said in the above quote: Be sure that you do things to people around you...at-least to those who are in your circle or family and friends.

This will surely get a positive impact in your life...and also get lots of joy and smile on your face along with those around you :)

If not a big thing, do very small things which can make people around you smile and keep you in their memories forever. In other words you can occupy a part of their hearts.

I know pretty well, that we humans are too busy that we don't even care about our own family members sometimes, then where do we get time to see other people around us...???

This is one big question which I myself have it when I think of it.., also in my thoughts I always feel like doing the best which I can to see people happy.

Want to help when they are in need, and with all these I always do try helping at-least one in a hundred needy people.

Let it be a family member or a friend, I always feel the joy/happiness and smile which I see that on their face.

Do come forward to help or at-least share/explain the way you want to help the needy.

Tell your friends, who I guess are the best one's with whom we can share everything. May be they will come up with some help when you cant afford your time for it.

The above lines are very much true.

But there are many who always don't feel that love and care they give us. In-fact they feel that their friends are the best showers of love and care....ya in very few cases I would say that it might be true with family members not being good to them. But why don't they just find the difference, or reason why is that happening and try to change or explain themselves instead of hating them, which in turn will always spoil the relations more.

Do try and explain and get the happiness.

I would say :

"The best place where we always feel the care and happiness is at home, where the lovely family stays"

Without any good communication or love at home no one in this world can stay happy.

May be they come out of the house and smile out feeling free...with friends and others, but deep inside you are never happy.

Assure yourself to be happy from inside, and then you would always have a smiling face.

Only then you can make and keep people around you happy.

 

Do take care of things you decide and do in your life.

Freedom To Love Without Limits:

Freedom To Love Without Limits...your donations make it possible....! 

These lines are from the video above...which gives a great meaning....do understand.

Do watch this video....

The person in the above video is the same Nick Vujicic about whom I already mentioned and posted about his life in previous posts.

Everything Happens For a Reason:

 

The above video is also one which can teach you and let you know that things in life are in such a way that, every small thing happening in your life has a reason...!! Do have faith in god and also yourself.

(: Keep Smiling :)