People Nowadays...!!

        
People nowadays.....everyone is busy with their own life, and when they get to see something different they stare at it very enthusiastically, which is in-fact the human nature. But, according to me, it should not be of the situation that the people always just stare even at needful time.

I meant saying, that if at all it is of any requirement of help in some situations, it is the person's duty to do so.

Not the way as it is shown in the above picture...!!

The above picture clearly shows that people are very much interested in getting entertained(here, taking the picture/video) of the situation, in which a person is drowning and the other where a person is in a pool of blood who met with an accident.

That is no one is bothered of the surroundings....the things good or bad going around them.

People nowadays are happy only when they get the things of their need, which in some cases, it is of such situations that the other needy person is let to lose.

It is somewhat like, the ranking.....if a person gets first, others are below, which is wrong in case of human feelings.

Every man/women, in-fact every living thing needs two main things... food and place... to live. And we human's have a special feature of earning that in a perfect manner rather than animals which earn it in its own way by attacking/killing brutally, which is animals nature of living,

But when you compare today's people, they are no less than the so called animals.

They are earning in their own way to stay/live a happy life, may be of selfishness, jealousy and greed.

And that in-turn is making the life's of many other people or families to lead a sad/sorrow life.

But, in some cases there are people who also lend their lives/spend for the sake of people around them, whom they don't know, which will surely bring some kind of happiness to them.

That is, few people feel happiness in making/getting other people to feel that happiness with what ever they have. Nick Vujicic, is one of the perfect example of such persons, about whom i have informed in previous posts.

Also, it is not that I am asking every human to help each other, but ya help them when they are in need.

At-least be as a support of some kind to them, so that they never feel lonely and sad. Even you would get the same response if at all you get into such kind of situations.

And by doing this, you will feel the happiness from your heart.

Life is short.

Love the people.

Have a belief that everything in life happens for a reason.

Nobody said life would be easy, just go on with it making it happy, if not directly, at-least indirectly.

Help others...make them get to know this is not the end if such situations come in which they decide to leave their life.

If you cant make yourself happy, do make people around you, your family, friends...to lead that smiley life :)

Automatically, even you will get the joy of life.

 

The above 3 quotes are really awesome...!!

Do read them and start applying them in your life and see the difference.

Read the following and do compare the characters of people with such qualities in your life. And I am sure that many of them will match with the persons in your life:-

* When A Person Laughs 2 Much Even On Stupid Things, Be Sure That Person Is Sad Deep Inside.

* When A Person Sleeps Alot, Be Sure Dat Person Is Lonely.

* When A Person Talks Less, And If He Talks, He Talks Fast Then It Means That Person Keeps Secrets.

* When Someone Can't Cry Then That Person Is Weak.

* When Someone Eats In Abnormal Way Then That Person Is In Tension.

* When Someone Cry On Little Things Then It Means He Is Innocent & Soft Hearted.

* When Someone Gets Angry On Silly Or Small Things It Means He Is In Love.

So True, Try To See All These In Real Life, U Will Find All...

Feel your life to be happy, but dont compare it to become unhappy

                                       Can anyone really live on Rs. 26 a day, the income of the officially poor in rural India?

 Two youngsters tried it out.

(I have taken this story from a group named Internet Jockey - ij in facebook).

I just want everyone to read this and get to know the value of money and people, whether rich or poor, every human is different in his/her world of life(happy/sad).

 Late last year, two young men decided to live a month of their lives on the income of an average poor Indian. One of them, Tushar, the son of a police officer in Haryana, studied at the University of Pennsylvania and worked for three years as an investment banker in the US and Singapore. The other, Matt, migrated as a teenager to the States with his parents, and studied in MIT. Both decided at different points to return to India, joined the UID Project in Bengaluru, came to share a flat, and became close friends.

The idea suddenly struck them one day. Both had returned to India in the vague hope that they could be of use to their country. But they knew the people of this land so little. Tushar suggested one evening — “Let us try to understand an ‘average Indian', by living on an ‘average income'.” His friend Matt was immediately captured by the idea. They began a journey which would change them forever.

To begin with, what was the average income of an Indian? They calculated that India's Mean National Income was Rs. 4,500 a month, or Rs. 150 a day. Globally people spend about a third of their incomes on rent. Excluding rent, they decided to spend Rs. 100 each a day. They realized that this did not make them poor, only average. Seventy-five per cent Indians live on less than this average.

The young men moved into the tiny apartment of their domestic help, much to her bemusement. What changed for them was that they spent a large part of their day planning and organizing their food. Eating out was out of the question; even dhabas were too expensive. Milk and yoghurt were expensive and therefore used sparingly, meat was out of bounds, as were processed food like bread. No ghee or butter, only a little refined oil. Both are passionate cooks with healthy appetites. They found soy nuggets a wonder food — affordable and high on proteins, and worked on many recipes. Parle G biscuits again were cheap: 25 paise for 27 calories! They innovated a dessert of fried banana on biscuits. It was their treat each day.

Restricted life

Living on Rs.100 made the circle of their life much smaller. They found that they could not afford to travel by bus more than five km in a day. If they needed to go further, they could only walk. They could afford electricity only five or six hours a day, therefore sparingly used lights and fans. They needed also to charge their mobiles and computers. One Lifebuoy soap cut into two. They passed by shops, gazing at things they could not buy. They could not afford the movies, and hoped they would not fall ill.
However, the bigger challenge remained. Could they live on Rs. 32, the official poverty line, which had become controversial after India's Planning Commission informed the Supreme Court that this was the poverty line for cities (for villages it was even lower, at Rs. 26 per person per day)?

Harrowing experience

For this, they decided to go to Matt's ancestral village Karucachal in Kerala, and live on Rs. 26. They ate parboiled rice, a tuber and banana and drank black tea: a balanced diet was impossible on the Rs. 18 a day which their briefly adopted ‘poverty' permitted. They found themselves thinking of food the whole day. They walked long distances, and saved money even on soap to wash their clothes. They could not afford communication, by mobile and internet. It would have been a disaster if they fell ill. For the two 26-year-olds, the experience of ‘official poverty' was harrowing.
Yet, when their experiment ended with Deepavali, they wrote to their friends: “Wish we could tell you that we are happy to have our ‘normal' lives back. Wish we could say that our sumptuous celebratory feast two nights ago was as satisfying as we had been hoping for throughout our experiment. It probably was one of the best meals we've ever had, packed with massive amounts of love from our hosts. However, each bite was a sad reminder of the harsh reality that there are 400 million people in our country for whom such a meal will remain a dream for quite some time. That we can move on to our comfortable life, but they remain in the battlefield of survival — a life of tough choices and tall constraints. A life where freedom means little and hunger is plenty...

Plenty of questions

It disturbs us to spend money on most of the things that we now consider excesses. 

Do we really need that hair product or that branded cologne? 

Is dining out at expensive restaurants necessary for a happy weekend? 

At a larger level, do we deserve all the riches we have around us?

Is it just plain luck that we were born into circumstances that allowed us to build a life of comfort? 

What makes the other half any less deserving of many of these material possessions, (which many of us consider essential) or, more importantly, tools for self-development (education) or self-preservation (healthcare)?

We don't know the answers to these questions. But we do know the feeling of guilt that is with us now. Guilt that is compounded by the love and generosity we got from people who live on the other side, despite their tough lives. We may have treated them as strangers all our lives, but they surely didn't treat us as that way...”
So what did these two friends learn from their brief encounter with poverty? That hunger can make you angry. That a food law which guarantees adequate nutrition to all is essential. That poverty does not allow you to realize even modest dreams. And above all — in Matt's words — that empathy is essential for democracy.

Feel your life to be happy, 

but don't compare it to become unhappy.

LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU ARE

Never lose the HOPE

Nick Vujicic - "Something More" Music Video

 

You will also surely get much more touched and motivated, after listening to this and watching this video about the song which represents his life, along with other people who have most of the things which he never had. And all of them finally watch each other and do change their minds and hereafter get over there problems and start a new happy life.

Sang by Nick Vujicic...himself, ALL FOR THE GLORY OF GOD!!! here it is... "Something More"...

Do listen and watch it.

The best and wonderful words by him in between at 3mins 40secs and 4mins 5secs, about his life which tell us not to lose hope….!

Also do watch the short film Butterfly Circus in which he acted. You can find it in youtube or click to watch.

This is one of the best short films, which you should watch and it is for sure that you will keep sharing and you would be his fan. 

Just get MOTIVATED by his life.

Don't lose HOPE.

Everything Happens For a Reason

Am just sharing these video's in order to make you all get motivated in your personal life...!

If not totally, just try to change in such a way that... you, the people with you and also people around you lead a happy life ....!

Keep Smiling and Make people smile and when you see this, its for sure you yourself will feel very happy at the end. 

Freedom To Love Without Limits...!

HOPE

Today I want to tell/give you'll something, which I wanted to do, much time earlier, and finally got a chance....

And I would just say the word "HOPE"....

Imagine being born without arms. No arms to wrap around someone, no hands to experience touch, or to hold another hand with. Or what about being born without legs? Having no ability to dance, walk, run, or even stand. Now put these both scenarios together: no arms and no legs....

What would you do?

How would that effect your everyday life?

Such a life is being experienced by a simple man, in-fact a hero for every human after you get to know about his life.

 The Best Ever Inspiring person about: Having Hope and Never loosing that Hope.

                             Nick Vujicic... Born in 1982 in Melbourne, Australia, without any medical explanation or warning, Nicholas Vujicic (pronounced Voy-a-chich) came into the world with neither arms nor legs. Having had an uneventful pregnancy and no family history to expect this condition, imagine the shock his parents felt when they saw their first born, brand new baby boy, only to find he was what the world would consider imperfect and abnormal. A limbless son was not what nurse Dushka Vujicic, and her husband Pastor Borris Vujicic had been expecting. How would their son live a normal happy life? What could he ever do or become when living with what the world would see as such a massive disability? Little did they know that this beautiful limbless baby would one day be someone who would inspire and motivate people from all walks of life, touching lives all over the world.

Throughout his childhood Nick dealt not only with the typical challenges of school and adolescence such as bullying and self-esteem issues; he also struggled with depression and loneliness as he questioned why he was different to all the other kids surrounding him; why he was the one born without arms and legs. He wondered what was the purpose behind his life, or if he even had a purpose. After a lot of frustration and feeling like the odd one out in school, at seven years of age Nick tried out some specially designed electronic arms and hands, in hopes that he would be more like the other kids. During the short trial period of the electronic arms, Nick realized that even with them, he was still unlike his peers at school, and they turned out to be much too heavy for Nick to operate, effecting his general mobility quite significantly.

As Nick grew up he learned to deal with his disability and started to be able to do more and more things on his own. He adapted to his situation and found ways to accomplish tasks that most people could only do by using their limbs, such as cleaning teeth, brushing hair, typing on a computer, swimming, playing sports, and much more. As time went by Nick began to embrace his situation and achieve greater things. In grade seven Nick was elected captain of his school and worked with the student council on various fund-raising events for local charities and disability campaigns.

According to Nick, the victory over his struggles throughout his journey, as well as his passion for life can be credited to his faith, his family, his friends and the many people he's encountered during his life who have encouraged him along the way.

After school Nick went on with further study and obtained a double bachelor degree majoring in accounting and financial planning. By the age of 19, Nick had started to fulfill his dream of encouraging others by sharing his story through motivational speaking. He found the purpose of his existence, and also the purpose in his circumstance. Nick wholeheartedly believes that there is a purpose in each of the struggles we encounter in our lives and that our attitude towards those struggles that can be the single most effective factor in overcoming them.

In 2005, Nick was nominated for the "Young Australian of the Year" Award, which is a large honor in Australia. The award honors a young person for their excellence and service to their local community and the nation, as well as their own personal accomplishments. Nominations for this award are only given to truly inspirational people.

Now at 27 years old, this limbless young man has accomplished more than most people even twice his age. Nick recently made the massive move from Brisbane, Australia to California, USA, where he is the president of an international non-profit organization, and also has his own motivational speaking company; Attitude Is Altitude. Since his first motivational speaking engagement back when he was 19, Nick has traveled around the world, sharing his story with millions of people, speaking to a range of different groups such as students, teachers, youth, business men and women, entrepreneurs, and church congregations of all sizes. He has also told his story and been interviewed on various televised programs worldwide. However, Nick's speaking engagements have gone beyond purely motivational speaking, he has had the opportunity to speak with several leaders, including the vice president of Kenya. This year alone Nick is set to speak in over 20 countries.

People ask Nick, "How can you smile?" Then they realize there's got to be something more to life than meets the eye if a guy without arms and legs is living a fuller life.

Nick shares with his audiences the importance of vision and dreaming big. Using his own experiences in worldwide outreach as examples, he challenges others to examine their perspective and look beyond their circumstances. He shares his view of ceasing to see obstacles as problems, but instead begin to see them as opportunities to grow and reach out to others. He stresses the importance of how attitude can be the most powerful tool we have at our disposal and illustrates how the choices we make can have a profound effect on our lives and the lives of those around us. Nick shows through his own life that the major keys in fulfilling our biggest dreams are persistence and choosing to embrace failure as a learning experience, rather than allowing the guilt and fear of failure to paralyze us.

How does Nick Vujicic feel about his disability now? He accepts it, embraces it and oftentimes pokes fun at his own circumstance as he shows off his many tricks. He meets challenges with his special blend of humor, perseverance and faith always encouraging those around him to examine their perspective as they develop and define their vision. Using those new definitions he challenges each person he meets to make changes in their lives so that they can begin the path to fulfilling their biggest dreams. Through his amazing ability to connect with people from all walks of life and his incredible sense of humor he captivates children, teens and adults alike, Nick is a true inspirational and motivational speaker.

I would like to ask you'll to watch his video's... 

and also few other vedio's which you can find below this post...

Do watch it and hope you all were touched by it and also make yourself have a never ending hope in your life, just think positive.

Do share it after you read and go through this :)

Many links which can tell more about him...

http://www.inspiring-quotes-and-stories.com/nick-vujicic.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1196755/The-astonishing-story-man-born-arms-legs--world-famous-swimmer-surfer-footballer.html

http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/

 Also, today this Motivational speaker Nick Vujicic is married..! Got recently married on February 12, 2012,

 Born without limbs, he has overcome adversities and made the most out of his life.

....Never give up in life....

He is not the only person who is leading such life, but he is the one who is helping many people get motivated in many ways to lead a happy life.

Speak Out to Share

LIFE : "A characteristic that distinguishes objects that have signaling and self-sustaining processes (i.e., living organisms) from those that do not, either because such functions have ceased (death), or else because they lack such functions and are classified as inanimate" ---This is a scientific definition.

Want to know more in detail: - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life

But when asked about life...Every Man/Woman,have their own answers varying in many different ways compared to one-another.

One says his life sucks and other says this is the best life.

The only difference I can tell is that both are in common in everything, except for that their feelings are different.....In this case "Rich / Poor".

But you as a human, once just think of it and instead of comparing your life with words like rich, poor, high, low, etc. ; see where you stand first, then yourself in front of the people all around you,the world.

After deciding this, you do compare to people or persons who are below you. In other words, if your rich compare with poor and if u are poor compare yourself with much poorer person, and then one fine day you yourself will find that your life is much better and in-fact a very happy leading life.

In philosophy and religion, the conception of life and its nature varies. Both offer interpretations as to how life relates to existence and consciousness, and both touch on many related issues, including life stance, purpose, conception of a god or gods, a soul or an afterlife.

Death is the permanent termination of all vital functions or life processes in an organism or cell...

In our simple language, he/she is dead. It is in common that every person dies on some or the other day, and it is for sure that he/she will never or can never take anything in material....

                                                But, the only thing happens is :

                  "He/She will leave all the memories and good/bad things done"

That is, the person dead is only remembered for his/her ever lasting memories, he/she left.

 So, Just think, everyone is common..."The Beginning and the End are in common"

Why don't you just live and make the people live happy all around you ?

In fact by doing this, you yourself will lead a happy and joyful life.

SPEAK OUT

I am going to start a website regarding this, I want to make people write down their life stories and make them to share it with people all over the world and let others know how and in what way every kind of person has his/her problems in life and compare themselves with their life and find a better way to live happily and in-fact also give them suggestions and help them get over and start up a new life which leads everyone to a happy and wonderful life :)

If at all you'll  have any suggestions or want to share something do mail me up at : speakouttoshare@gmail.com